Have you ever felt the urge to gather your friends and family into your home but hesitated because hosting seems like such a huge task? You’re not alone. In our latest podcast episode, we dive deep into the do’s and don’ts of hosting with the incredible Claire Couche, a Catholic wife, mother, and certified etiquette instructor. Whether you’re dreaming of creating a cozy space for a small gathering or planning a grand dinner party, Claire offers wisdom and warmth to encourage and equip you for the season ahead.
Hosting as a Reflection of Faith
Our conversation with Claire began with a beautiful reminder that hosting is more than just opening the doors of our homes; it’s about opening our hearts. Claire’s perspective on hosting as an act of faith was profound and inspiring. She shared how we can embody Christ’s love through our hospitality, seeing each guest as Christ himself and making our homes a place of peace and solace.
Embrace Simplicity
You might feel pressure to impress with elaborate arrangements and perfectly cooked meals, but Claire emphasizes that hosting doesn’t have to be extravagant. She encourages us to keep it simple with ideas like potluck-style dinners or casual tea parties, allowing the focus to be on the relationships rather than the menu. It’s about making your guests feel at home and loved, regardless of the setting.
Practical Hosting Tips
- Prepare Your Space: Focus on the areas your guests will use, such as the sitting room and bathroom. A tidy space is welcoming, but remember it’s okay to show signs of life and personality.
- The Menu Matters Less: If cooking is daunting, don’t hesitate to order in or ask guests to bring a dish. The goal is fellowship, not perfection.
- Be Intentional: Pay attention to details. Remembering a guest’s favorite drink or snack can make them feel cherished and valued.
The Etiquette of Hosting and Being a Guest
Claire’s insights into the etiquette of hosting were invaluable. As hosts, it’s important to prepare ahead of time so we can be present when guests arrive. Also, showing a guest where the bathroom is or offering a drink can make a big difference in their comfort.
For those visiting, Claire advises showing gratitude and offering to help where you can. A good guest considers their host’s preferences, like removing shoes if the household does or informing them of any allergies.
Hosting Overnight Guests
When it comes to overnight guests, Claire suggests anticipating their needs, such as sharing the WiFi password in a welcoming note or stocking up on extra toiletries. It’s those small acts of hospitality that speak volumes about our love and care.
Final Thoughts
Claire left us with a powerful invitation: see hosting not as a chore but as an opportunity to love and serve. In a world that often feels disconnected, welcoming others into our homes offers a precious chance to build community and share the love of Christ.
For more insights and tips from Claire Couche, you can find her on Instagram at @findingphilothea, on her website findingphilothea.com, and on YouTube. Claire has also shared a wonderful freebie with hosting tips and a simple recipe to get you started on your journey of hospitality.
Listen to the full episode of our podcast to hear Claire’s stories, wisdom, and encouragement. Let’s embrace the art of hosting and make this season one of connection, love, and grace.Claire’s Links
Free Hosting 101 Guide – https://findingphilothea.myflodesk.com/hosting101guide
Website: https://findingphilothea.com
IG: https://www.instagram.com/findingphilothea
Newsletter: https://findingphilothea.myflodesk.com/0e214df7-276a-4357-aabe-7a05d40cb630
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/findphilothea/
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@findingphilothea
TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@findingphilothea
Friendship Manual: https://melissa-tablada-s-school.teachable.com/p/thefriendshipmanual
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