Welcome to The Ever Be Podcast, where faith meets lifestyle in meaningful conversations. I’m your host, Mari Wagner, and in this episode, we’re diving deep into a topic that’s both personal and universal—infertility and how to support women navigating this challenging journey. Joining me is my dear friend and neighbor, Alli Kalina, a devoted focus parish missionary. Together, we explore practical ways to offer love and support to those experiencing infertility or pregnancy loss.

Understanding the Journey

Infertility is a heavy cross for many women, and it’s vital to approach it with compassion and understanding. Alli and I discuss the emotional roller coaster this journey entails, from hope and longing to moments of deep questioning of faith. We recognize the importance of creating supportive environments where women can openly share their struggles without fear of judgment or misconceptions.

Being There: What to Say and Do

It can be difficult to know exactly what to say to a friend walking through infertility. Alli shares experiences of both supportive and unintentionally hurtful comments, highlighting the importance of thoughtful and open-ended inquiries. Simple gestures mean the world—asking, “How are you really doing?” can bridge feelings of loneliness and isolation.

Furthermore, acknowledging personal milestones or difficult dates can be deeply affirming. Consider sending a text or a small gift on Mother’s Day or the due dates of a lost pregnancy—these can be powerful symbols of your love and presence.

Celebrating Joy Amidst Pain

Pregnancy announcements can be bittersweet moments for women struggling with infertility. Alli and I reflect on how to convey such news lovingly, recommending personalization based on the friend’s current emotional space. Writing a heartfelt letter or sharing the news privately can provide space for processing complicated emotions.

Additionally, we encourage friends to celebrate victories and joys while holding space for grief, understanding that these feelings can coexist.

Practical Presence

Sometimes, being present means more than words. Inviting friends to gatherings—family-oriented or otherwise—reminds them they are part of your life. Offering to be there for medical appointments or providing meals during recovery from procedures are tangible ways to demonstrate your support.

Unyielding Hope

In closing, Alli and I emphasize the power of hope—hope in God’s plan, even when the road seems endless. Acknowledge every step, knowing that your journey and sacrifices are not in vain. We hold tight to the belief in a loving plan and encourage others not to lose sight of hope amidst the struggle.

Tune In

Join Alli and me for this heartfelt conversation, packed with understanding and actionable advice. Together, we can create a community of support for women dealing with infertility or pregnancy loss. Tune in to learn how to be a beacon of light in someone’s journey.

Connect with Alli

For further insights, connect with Alli Kalina on her Instagram @blessedtohope. She shares hope-filled reflections and personal stories aimed at creating a community where no one feels alone in their journey.

Let us walk this path together, lifting each other up in love and faith. You’re not alone; there’s a community ready to support you every step of the way. Listen now, and find the encouragement your heart seeks.