Our Live Journey

Standing on that stage and seeing each of your faces was an indescribable feeling. It’s such a change from my usual routine of recording alone in my loft. This time, I was accompanied by none other than my husband, Trey, who joined me for this live Q&A session. We dove headfirst into some of the most pressing questions on God-centered relationships, discerning marriage, and living our spiritual lives daily.

Daily Spiritual Lives: Foundation of Our Relationship

One of the standout questions was about our daily spiritual lives and how they form the heartbeat of our relationship. Trey and I shared how we prioritize personal time with the Lord, starting first thing in the morning. It’s all about creating space for prayer, whether through the Liturgy of the Hours, journaling, or simply meditating with instrumental music. The intentionality in daily prayer has been a transformative foundation for us.

Finding the Balance: Roles in Relationships

The conversation naturally moved toward how roles play out in relationships, including who should make the first move. While we shared a humorous recount of our own beginning—where I admittedly took the first step—it opened up a broader discussion about confidence and clarity in relationships. As much as we advocate for the traditional notion of men taking the lead, there’s room for women to express interest in a way that aligns with their spiritual dignity.

Building a Friendship Before a Relationship

Our journey to marriage was not just about romance but also about forging a deep friendship. We spent countless hours just getting to know one another, discussing everything from family to personal dreams. That friendship laid a solid groundwork for what would grow into a profound love anchored in mutual respect and shared spiritual values.

Marriage as a Vocation

Deciding when to step into marriage involved serious discernment. Trey and I both discussed how we took this decision into prayer, sought guidance from spiritual mentors, and trusted in God to guide our path. Marriage, for us, is not just about companionship; it’s our pathway to sainthood, and we want every young couple to see it as a serious but joyful vocation.

Practicing Chastity While Dating

Chastity was a significant topic as we explored what it means to pursue purity in a relationship. We stressed the necessity of setting clear boundaries early, which is crucial for maintaining respect and understanding in a dating relationship. These boundaries—along with the beautiful sacrament of confession—have been vital in our relationship, reminding us of God’s grace and the strength found in perseverance.

Questions from Our Community

From discernment advice to how to keep God at the center while navigating the challenges of college life, every question from our audience highlighted the relatable struggles and joys of trying to live a faith-centered life. We were able to share personal insights and shed light on what has worked for us, hoping it will inspire and guide others.